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<channel><title><![CDATA[Amey Hegde | Corporate Trainer Goa, corporate training Goa, team building Goa - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2025 08:43:48 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Strengths Based Parenting]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/strengths-based-parenting]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/strengths-based-parenting#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jul 2017 15:30:08 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/strengths-based-parenting</guid><description><![CDATA[Recently, I came across a book "Strengths Based Parenting&mdash;Developing Your Child&rsquo;s Innate Talents" by Dr. Mary Reckmeyer, Executive Director of Gallup&rsquo;s Donald O. Clifton Child Development Center. According to this book, parents should focus on discovering and developing their children's talents and strengths instead of trying to fix their weaknesses. Reckmeyer says that while the effort spent in fixing weaknesses can only lead to marginal improvement, the same effort spent on a [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">Recently, I came across a book "Strengths Based Parenting&mdash;Developing Your Child&rsquo;s Innate Talents" by Dr. Mary Reckmeyer, Executive Director of Gallup&rsquo;s Donald O. Clifton Child Development Center. According to this book, parents should focus on discovering and developing their children's talents and strengths instead of trying to fix their weaknesses. Reckmeyer says that while the effort spent in fixing weaknesses can only lead to marginal improvement, the same effort spent on an area of talent can make your child excel in that area.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">To start out on this journey, here are some ways in which parents can identify their children's strengths:</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">i) Strengths spotting:</strong><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;This can be useful for kids under 10 years who are too young for online tests. In strengths spotting, parents observe and pay attention to areas where kids learn more quickly and gain satisfaction, and encourage them in those areas. Some examples of inborn talents are painting, writing or sporting ability. If you notice your child is interested in and good at art, you could enrol her in an art class and provide her good quality colours at home. You could then have a mini exhibition of her artwork at home to encourage her talent. On the other hand personality strengths can be strengths of character like kindness, self-control, persistence. To identify personality strengths, parents can try to figure out the strengths which are the reasons behind their child's various actions. For example a child's kindness could be the reason why he shares with his friends, another child's self-control might be why she is able to finish homework instead of watch TV, and another child's persistence could be the reason he is able to keep practising while learning a new sport. &nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">ii) VIA Youth Survey:</strong><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;Kids aged 10-17 could take the VIA Youth Survey, a free online self-assessment tool that helps young individuals discover their personality strengths. On completing the assessment, one receives a free Character Strengths Profile, a ordered list of one&rsquo;s strengths. One can also purchase the VIA Youth Decoder Report which provides detailed descriptions, activities and tips for the child's top strengths. This report can help the kid to recognize and exert his strengths in different ways. The VIA survey is available at&nbsp;</span><a href="http://www.viacharacter.org/" target="_blank">http://www.viacharacter.org</a><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">iii) Gallup StrengthsExplorer:</strong><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;Kids aged 10 to 14 could take the StrengthsExplorer, Gallup's online assessment for students that allows one to recognize one&rsquo;s three strongest emerging talents. The assessment offers strategies and action items to help students and their parents leverage strengths in the classroom and in life. Visit&nbsp;</span><a href="http://www.strengthsbasedparenting.com/" target="_blank">http://www.strengthsbasedparenting.com</a><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(1, 1, 1)">Wishing all parents a happy Strengths Based Parenting experience!</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[4D Process for Setting and Achieving Goals]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/4d-process-for-setting-and-achieving-goals]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/4d-process-for-setting-and-achieving-goals#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jun 2017 17:32:38 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/4d-process-for-setting-and-achieving-goals</guid><description><![CDATA[​On Jan 22, 2017 I attended a session by the World's Leading Management Guru, Brian Tracy at The National Achievers Conference at Bangalore. I loved his 7 step process for goal setting and found it to be very effective. However, when I tried explaining it to others, many found it difficult to remember the 7 steps. Hence I decided to create a simplified process of setting and achieving goals. The&nbsp;4D process&nbsp; I came up with consists of 4 simple, easy to remember steps all starting with [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -10px;"><table class="wsite-multicol-table"><tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"><tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"><td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:61.166666666667%; padding:0 10px;"><div><div id="126989700641296219" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><iframe width="350" height="195" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/usgg49RHt_M?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div></td><td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:38.833333333333%; padding:0 10px;"><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="http://www.ameyhegde.in/uploads/8/3/9/2/8392019/4d_2_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:179;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div><div class="paragraph">&#8203;On Jan 22, 2017 I attended a session by the World's Leading Management Guru, Brian Tracy at The National Achievers Conference at Bangalore. I loved his 7 step process for goal setting and found it to be very effective. However, when I tried explaining it to others, many found it difficult to remember the 7 steps. Hence I decided to create a simplified process of setting and achieving goals. The&nbsp;<strong>4D process</strong>&nbsp; I came up with consists of 4 simple, easy to remember steps all starting with a D;&nbsp; <strong>D</strong>ream,&nbsp;<strong>D</strong>efine,&nbsp;<strong>D</strong>ivide and&nbsp;<strong>D</strong>o.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;<br>Let us explore each of the steps in detail.<br><br><strong>Step 1: Dream</strong>&nbsp;- Dream of a goal that is both Desirable and Doable.<br><strong>Desirable -</strong>&nbsp;means you really feel motivated to achieve it.<br><strong>Doable -</strong>&nbsp;means you feel it&rsquo;s possible to achieve it.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Example:</strong>&nbsp;Ram wants to lose weight this year.<br>For Ram, this goal is desirable and doable. He really feels motivated to lose weight and feels it&rsquo;s possible to achieve it.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Action for reader:</strong>&nbsp;Think of a goal in any area of your life; career, health, relationships, money etc. Now, ask yourself two questions. It is desirable - do you really feel motivated to achieve it? It is doable - do you feel it&rsquo;s possible to achieve it? If the answer to both these questions is a yes then proceed to step 2, else think of an alternate goal that is both desirable and doable.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Step 2: Define</strong>&nbsp;- Define the goal on paper with Details and Date.<br><strong>Details -</strong>&nbsp;mention all the details.&nbsp;<br><strong>Date -</strong>&nbsp;mention the completion date.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Example:</strong>&nbsp;Ram wrote the following goal. I will lose&nbsp;<em>5 kg and reduce 2 inches from my waist</em>&nbsp;by&nbsp;<em>30th November 2017.</em><br>Note that in the above goal statement he didn't just say lose weight, he included details like lose 5 kg and reduce 2 inches from my waist and also the date.<br>&nbsp;<br>Why write the goal on paper? If we write it, our mind realises that we are serious about achieving it. Our mind then focuses on the goal and starts working in the background on how to achieve it.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Action for reader:</strong>&nbsp;Write your goal on paper in below format with details and date.<br>I will ____ by DD MM YYYY<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Step 3: Divide</strong>&nbsp;- Divide the goal into sub-goals.<br>&nbsp;<br>Make a list of all actions you need to do to achieve the goal. Next, split your goal into sub-goals with dates.<br>&nbsp;<br>Let us continue with Ram&rsquo;s goal:<br><strong>Goal:</strong>&nbsp;I will lose&nbsp;<em>5 kg and reduce 2 inches from my waist</em>&nbsp;by&nbsp;<em>30th November 2017.</em><br>&nbsp;<br><strong>List of actions:</strong><br>-Find out exercises for weight loss.<br>-Find out right diet for weight loss.<br>-Start exercising daily.<br>-Reduce eating junk food.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Sub-goals with Timelines:</strong><br><strong>15 July 2017:</strong>&nbsp;I will lose 1 kg by 15 July 2017<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>15 September 2017:</strong>&nbsp;I will lose 3 kg and 1 inch by 15th September 2017.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>15 October 2017:</strong>&nbsp;I will lose 4 kg and 1.5 inches by 15th October 2017.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Action for reader:</strong>&nbsp;Make a list of actions needed to achieve your goal. Also write down sub-goals, with dates as shown above.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Step 4: Do</strong>&nbsp;- Do daily micro-actions.<br>&nbsp;<br>What is the most important thing needed in order to achieve goals? It&rsquo;s&nbsp;<strong>Action.</strong>&nbsp; If we plan for big actions we may keep postponing them. Hence it&rsquo;s better to start with&nbsp;<strong>micro-actions</strong>&nbsp;that can be completed in less than 30 minutes.&nbsp;Completing micro-actions motivates us to do more micro-actions that keep moving us towards our goals.<br>&nbsp;<br>Continuing with Ram&rsquo;s goal, his daily micro-actions could be:&nbsp;<br>-Brisk walking for 15 minutes.<br>-Surya Namaskar (yoga) for 15 minutes.<br>-Eat fruits instead of junk food.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Action for reader:</strong>&nbsp;Write down your daily micro-actions, include small things you can easily complete every day.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Step 4: Do</strong>&nbsp;- Do daily micro-actions.<br>I have included step 4 again as after a few days, motivation levels may drop. Here are some tips to motivate you to keep doing your daily micro-actions.&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;<br>i) Plan and schedule each day the night before. Decide a fixed time and place to do your daily micro-action to make it a habit.<br>&nbsp;<br>ii) Overcome distractions creatively. Let&rsquo;s take the case of Ram whose daily micro-action is to exercise on waking up, but he can&rsquo;t resist checking his mobile. To avoid the temptation of checking his mobile, he came up with an idea of charging his mobile in the living room instead of the bedroom.<br>&nbsp;<br>iii) Give yourself a micro-reward on completing your micro-action to keep yourself motivated. It could be a piece of chocolate/fruit, a short chat with a friend or watching a short youtube video.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Action for reader:</strong>&nbsp;Decide a fixed time and place to do your daily micro-actions, come up with creative ways to overcome distractions, and choose micro-rewards that motivate you to keep doing your micro-actions.<br>&nbsp;<br>To summarise, the 4D process of setting and achieving goals consists of 4 simple steps:<br><strong>-Dream</strong>&nbsp;of a goal that is desirable and doable.<br><strong>-Define</strong>&nbsp;it on paper with details and deadline.<br><strong>-Divide</strong>&nbsp;it into sub-goals.<br><strong>-Do</strong>&nbsp;daily micro-actions.<br>&nbsp;<br>Wish all readers happy 4D Goal Setting!</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[English Translation of a Konkani Poem on Attitude of Gratitude by Poorva Gude and Amey Hegde]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/english-translation-of-a-konkani-poem-on-attitude-of-gratitude-by-poorva-gude-and-amey-hegde]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/english-translation-of-a-konkani-poem-on-attitude-of-gratitude-by-poorva-gude-and-amey-hegde#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2017 10:51:16 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/english-translation-of-a-konkani-poem-on-attitude-of-gratitude-by-poorva-gude-and-amey-hegde</guid><description><![CDATA[Poorva Gude and me recently translated a Konkani Poem on the theme of Attitude of Gratitude&nbsp;by the great poet Manohar Rai Sardesai. Would like to express thanks to Datti Kunde and Pravin Sabnis for their valuable inputs and suggestions. &nbsp;&nbsp;   	 		 			 				 					 						  Original Konkani Poem byDr.&nbsp;Manohar Rai Sardesai&#8203;&#2332;&#2367;&#2339;&#2375;&#2344; &#2350;&#2381;&#2361;&#2366;&#2325;&#2366; &#2360;&#2327;&#2355;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;&nbsp [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Poorva Gude and me recently translated a Konkani Poem <span>on the theme of Attitude of Gratitude&nbsp;</span>by the great poet Manohar Rai Sardesai. Would like to express thanks to Datti Kunde and Pravin Sabnis for their valuable inputs and suggestions. &nbsp;&nbsp;</div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -0px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:45.333333333333%; padding:0 0px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#000000"><strong>Original Konkani Poem by</strong><br /><strong><strong>Dr.&nbsp;Manohar Rai Sardesai</strong></strong><strong>&#8203;</strong><br /><br /><strong>&#2332;&#2367;&#2339;&#2375;&#2344; &#2350;&#2381;&#2361;&#2366;&#2325;&#2366; &#2360;&#2327;&#2355;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;</strong>&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&#2361;&#2366;&#2306;&#2357;&#2375; &#2325;&#2367;&#2342;&#2375;&#2306;&#2330; &#2350;&#2366;&#2327;&#2354;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366; &#2348;&#2327;&#2352;&nbsp;<br />&#2332;&#2367;&#2339;&#2375;&#2344; &#2350;&#2381;&#2361;&#2366;&#2325;&#2366; &#2360;&#2327;&#2355;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;&nbsp;<br /><br />&#2326;&#2379;&#2306;&#2346; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2368; &#2352;&#2366;&#2306;&#2342;&#2344; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2368;<br />&#2352;&#2366;&#2306;&#2342;&#2344;&#2368;&#2330;&#2375;&#2352; &#2340;&#2346;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;<br />&#2349;&#2366;&#2306;&#2327;&#2352;&#2366; &#2357;&#2352;&#2368; &#2346;&#2367;&#2340;&#2355;&#2375; &#2349;&#2367;&#2340;&#2352;<br />&#2350;&#2379;&#2340;&#2351;&#2366;&#2306; &#2357;&#2352;&#2368; &#2358;&#2368;&#2340; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;.&nbsp;<br /><br />&#2310;&#2306;&#2348;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366;-&#2352;&#2370;&#2326;&#2366; &#2360;&#2366;&#2306;&#2357;&#2355;&#2368; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2368;&nbsp;<br />&#2330;&#2369;&#2337;&#2335;&#2366;&#2306;&#2330;&#2375;&#2306; &#2357;&#2366;&#2352;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;<br />&#2350;&#2355;&#2348;&#2366; &#2357;&#2352;&#2368; &#2344;&#2367;&#2355;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366; &#2340;&#2355;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366;&#2306;&#2340;&nbsp;<br />&#2360;&#2366;&#2355;&#2325;&#2366;&#2306;&#2330;&#2375;&#2306; &#2352;&#2370;&#2346; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;.<br /><br />&#2350;&#2379;&#2327;&#2366;&#2355;, &#2346;&#2367;&#2325;&#2366;&#2355; &#2350;&#2366;&#2340;&#2368; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2368;&nbsp;<br />&#2327;&#2366;&#2306;&#2357;&#2366; &#2351;&#2375;&#2342;&#2375;&#2306; &#2349;&#2366;&#2335; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;<br />&#2328;&#2352;&#2366; &#2349;&#2367;&#2340;&#2352;, &#2346;&#2379;&#2352;&#2360;&#2366; &#2349;&#2367;&#2340;&#2352;&nbsp;<br />&#2346;&#2379;&#2352;&#2366;&#2306; &#2347;&#2355;&#2366;&#2306; &#2346;&#2368;&#2325; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;.&nbsp;<br /><br />&#2357;&#2366;&#2357; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2379;, &#2357;&#2366;&#2342;&#2355; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;&nbsp;<br />&#2354;&#2326;&#2381;&#2326; &#2357;&#2367;&#2332;&#2375;-&#2361;&#2366;&#2306;&#2360;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;&nbsp;<br />&#2342;&#2379;&#2306;&#2327;&#2352;&#2366; &#2351;&#2375;&#2342;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366; &#2354;&#2381;&#2361;&#2366;&#2352;&#2366;&#2306; &#2350;&#2342;&#2368;&#2306;&nbsp;<br />&#2342;&#2367;&#2357;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366;-&#2328;&#2352;&#2366; &#2350;&#2344; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;.&nbsp;<br /><br />&#2327;&#2369;&#2354;&#2366;&#2348; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;, &#2325;&#2366;&#2306;&#2335;&#2375; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;<br />&#2325;&#2366;&#2306;&#2335;&#2375; &#2360;&#2379;&#2306;&#2360;&#2346;&#2368; &#2325;&#2366;&#2355;&#2368;&#2332; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;&nbsp;<br />&#2313;&#2350;&#2366;&#2358;&#2375;&#2330;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366; &#2342;&#2379;&#2355;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366;&#2306;&#2340; &#2350;&#2381;&#2361;&#2332;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366;<br />&#2346;&#2370;&#2344;&#2357;&#2375;&#2330;&#2375;&#2306; &#2360;&#2346;&#2344; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;.<br /><br />&#2361;&#2366;&#2306;&#2357;&#2375; &#2325;&#2367;&#2342;&#2375;&#2306;&#2330; &#2350;&#2366;&#2327;&#2354;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366; &#2348;&#2327;&#2352;&nbsp;<br />&#2332;&#2367;&#2339;&#2375;&#2344; &#2350;&#2381;&#2361;&#2366;&#2325;&#2366; &#2360;&#2327;&#2355;&#2375;&#2306; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;&nbsp;<br />&#2325;&#2379;&#2354;&#2357;&#2366;&#2330;&#2381;&#2351;&#2366; &#2326;&#2379;&#2306;&#2346;&#2368;&#2306;&#2340; &#2350;&#2381;&#2361;&#2332;&#2351;&#2366;&nbsp;<br />&#2357;&#2367;&#2358;&#2381;&#2357;&#2366;&#2330;&#2375;&#2306; &#2343;&#2344; &#2342;&#2367;&#2354;&#2375;&#2306;.</font></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:54.666666666667%; padding:0 0px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph">&#8203; <strong>English Translation by Poorva Gude &amp; Amey Hegde</strong><br /><br /><strong>&#8203;&#8203;</strong>&#8203;<br /><strong>Life gave me everything</strong><br />&nbsp;<br />Without me asking for anything&nbsp;<br />Life gave me everything<br />&nbsp;<br />A cozy hut, a warm stove<br />a pot to sit atop the stove<br />in my gold hued brass plate<br />pearl like cooked rice awaits.<br />&nbsp;<br />The shade of the mango tree<br />breeze of swaying palms so free<br />the sky like blue lake waters<br />are made beautiful by the lotus.<br />&nbsp;<br />Loving, fertile soil<br />a village sized farm to toil&nbsp;<br />in my home and garden takes root<br />a rich harvest of children and fruits.<br />&nbsp;<br />Both, ways and storms to fight<br />and laughter like lightening, bright<br />amidst mountain like waves<br />a lighthouse like mind you gave.<br />&nbsp;<br />Roses as well as thorns that smart<br />to bear these thorns, a strong heart<br />in my eyes in the dark night<br />gave dreams of the full moon light.<br />&nbsp;<br />Without me asking for anything<br />Life gave me everything<br />To my humble home<br />World's treasures Life brings.</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -0px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:22.666666666667%; padding:0 0px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:0px;padding-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.ameyhegde.in/uploads/8/3/9/2/8392019/published/42704703-0-nocrop_2.jpg?1490093873" alt="Picture" style="width:119;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:77.333333333333%; padding:0 0px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>About&nbsp;Manohar Rai Sardesai&nbsp;</strong><br />Dr. Manohar Rai Sardesai was a Konkani poet/writer from Goa, India&nbsp;who contributed a lot to&nbsp;Konkani literature&nbsp;in&nbsp;India.&nbsp;He has been credited for an upsurge of modern Konkani poetry. Sardesai died in 2006.<br /></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Catch That Big Fish!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/catch-that-big-fish]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/catch-that-big-fish#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2017 02:45:43 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ameyhegde.in/blog/catch-that-big-fish</guid><description><![CDATA[Pursuing Big Dreams - Catch That Big&nbsp;Fish!Written by &nbsp;Amey in June 2012&nbsp;A few years back, on a sunny Sunday morning, I visited Palolem beach with my cousins. When we reached the beach, we could see a lovely deserted island popularly known as &lsquo;Monkey Island&rsquo; (marked as Kankon Island on Google maps). The island alluringly beckoned to us and we decided to take a closer look at it.We walked towards a rocky area, as the villagers told us we could wade across from there to & [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><strong>Pursuing Big Dreams - Catch That Big&nbsp;Fish!<br />Written by &nbsp;Amey in June 2012</strong><br /><br />&nbsp;A few years back, on a sunny Sunday morning, I visited Palolem beach with my cousins. When we reached the beach, we could see a lovely deserted island popularly known as &lsquo;Monkey Island&rsquo; (marked as Kankon Island on Google maps). The island alluringly beckoned to us and we decided to take a closer look at it.<br />We walked towards a rocky area, as the villagers told us we could wade across from there to &lsquo;Monkey Island&rsquo; in low tide. However, we found that the water between us and the island was neck deep and the current very strong. We decided not be take a risk and instead sat down to enjoy the sea view.<br /><br />After a while, we noticed an old man&nbsp;fishing. He seemed to be having a bad day, as there were only three-four small&nbsp;fish&nbsp;next to him. We felt sorry for him and hoped he would catch a bigger one. After a few minutes, our prayers were answered and he reeled in a big&nbsp;fish. We felt happy thinking he would have a good meal. However, to our dismay, he removed the big&nbsp;fish&nbsp;from the hook and threw it back into the water. We were shocked! We asked him &ldquo;Why did you throw the big&nbsp;fish&nbsp;back?&rdquo; He gave us a toothless grin and said &ldquo;I only have a tiny tavo (frying pan) at home.&rdquo;<br />After a good laugh, one of my cousins advised him to buy a bigger frying pan. Another suggested that he could cut the big&nbsp;fish&nbsp;into small pieces before frying it!<br />This is not a true story. Also, this article is not about&nbsp;fishing&nbsp;and frying pans, but about following our big dreams.<br />Like the old man who threw back the big&nbsp;fish&nbsp;because it did not fit his tiny frying pan, we often dismiss our big dreams because we feel they are too big to fit our existing mindsets and abilities.<br />Let us apply the two approaches suggested above to achieve our big dreams.<br /><br /><strong>Approach 1: Get a bigger frying pan</strong><br /><strong>a.</strong> Boost your self-confidence. Zig Ziglar, the world's foremost authority on motivation&nbsp;says &ldquo;When your image improves, your performance improves&rdquo;. Make a list of your ten best <a href="http://www.betterme.ch/en/ecrire-succes-confiance-en-soi/" target="_blank">achievements</a> so far, your top&nbsp;<a href="http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTMC_05_1.htm" target="_blank">strengths</a>&nbsp;and what other people see as your strengths and top abilities and read this list to gain confidence.<br /><strong>b.&nbsp;</strong>Ensure that your dream is important to you and is in sync with your top values in life.<br />c. Acquire new skills/abilities needed to achieve your dream. According to Jim Rohn, America's foremost business philosopher, &ldquo;You must either modify your dreams or magnify your skills.&rdquo;&nbsp;Identify the skills needed to achieve your dream and see how you can acquire them.&nbsp;<strong>Find experts&nbsp;</strong>and learn from them.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>Approach 2:</strong><strong>&nbsp;Cut the&nbsp;fish&nbsp;into small pieces</strong><br />Achieving your big dream might seem overwhelming at first. Break the big dream into smaller, more manageable goals. Think about something that you can do within one month, within a week and what you can do today to achieve that big dream.<br /><br />&#8203;That big dream is waiting for you. 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